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Picking your Photographer

With recent horror story’s of failed wedding photography and bad services in the media it has never been more important to do your research when booking a wedding photographer. The problem is photography is simply so accessible for everyone these days, you buy yourself a fancy looking SLR, you set up a website and there you have it your now a professional photographer. I am however afraid to say that getting professional results is much more difficult than that and by the time many couples find this out its just to late for them. I have even seen evidence of photography websites stealing other photographer’s work and passing it off as their own in order to book unsuspecting wedding clients. So just how do you spot the good from the bad?

Price.
While we all love a bargain some things are simply to good to be true. There is a wide range of prices and packages available on the market so finding value is possible but if the price is significantly cheaper than the local market/competitors then they must be cutting costs somewhere down the line. This is often simply due to the lack of skill from the photographer and that they just wouldn’t get any bookings if they charged the same as there professional competition. So when thinking of wedding photography you have to remember that it is an investment. When the dress has been worn, the food has been eaten the one thing that remains for years to come is the wedding photography. Don’t think cheap, think value.
Ask Questions.
One of the first things you should do when you think you have found a photographer is to ask to meet them in person. This will be your chance to quiz the photographer. A professional photographer will be very much used to any questions you have for them and happy to answer any concerns so don’t be afraid to ask anything.
Questions to ask at this meeting are.

How many weddings has the photographer shot?
What equipment the photographer use? (This may mean nothing to you but take note of how confident the photographer is in their answer. Does it appear they know their gear inside and out?).
Does the photographer have backup if a camera or other piece of equipment was to break?
Does the photographer carry business insurance? (Many venues will not allow a photographer to work in their venue if they do not).
Is the person you are meeting actually your photographer on the day?
Is the work you are seeing their own?
See a whole wedding… or 2.
Seeing a few nice shots from varies weddings is fine but anyone can get lucky and if they shoot 2000 photos and only get 1 nice shot that’s pretty worthless for your wedding day. Ask to see some album examples showing a whole wedding from start to finish. This will also give you a chance to ask some more questions on how they work to see if there style suits you and to make sure the work you see is there own. Look for a consistent standard of work no matter what the situation. You want your photographer to be able to produce a high standard of image in all lighting conditions and under any pressures.
Use Internet reviews
The great thing about the Internet is that the word can be spread very quickly if there is rouge out there. Search not only for the company name but also the name of the photographer, as it is very possible they may have built a bad reputation under a previous name. Finding one bad review may not mean they are all bad but if it’s an on-going pattern then beware.


Recommendation. 

Recommendations and referrals are the professions best friend. Any company worth considering will aim to always please and asking friends who are already married can give you that piece of mind.

Ok so this  may sound a little doom and gloom. Wedding photography is not all bad and most of the photographers you will find and meet will be honest businesses with a passion for photography and a pride in their work. However there are rouges out there and taking simple steps and doing lots of research will help you spot them fast and not become a victim of there low standards and terrible service.

 

-Dorothy  McCuskey

www.pbdstudios.net 901.359.8575

How much are Invitations?

Wedding invitations can be a large expense or can be affordable, depending on your creativity and budget. Wedding invitation can range from $1.50 each to $25.00 or more each. It all depends on the type of paper, if you’re getting high-end printing (such as engraving or letterpress), tri-folds and bi-folds, pocket style invitations, and embellishments. The extras, such as bows and extra layers of paper can really add up. If you want to save money on your invites, it’s best to keep it simple. Another way you can save is to have guests RSVP to a website, an email address or phone number rather than sending a reply card back. This saves on the cost of the actual invitation as well as on the postage.

 

“Like” Dixon Prints on Facebook - http://www.facebook.com/dixonprints – Invitations as low as $1.75 each (pictured below)

A Venue to definitly be looked at!

The Belle was built by Schlitz, the original owners, in 1972.  It was renamed the Stroh Belle in 1982 with Stroh’s purchase of Schlitz.  In 1990, it became the Coors Belle. In 2006 it became”The Belle”.  The simple name is design to maintain the true essence of the name as well as the name that Memphians recognize and have come to love. Russell Zimmerman designed the Belle and collected the memorabilia. Duncan Allenson Spencer of MGM Studios hand-painted the mural (200′ X 15′).

 

This unique venue is a recreation of a Mississippi Sternwheeler of over a century ago. This hospitality center with its majestic riverboat theme has a historic yet elegant flair. The Belle is the ideal location to entertain and host your special occasion.

 

Our facility has two separate event spaces The Belle Ballroom accommodates up to 250 Guest. The Ball room can be used for a variety of different functions whether it a wedding, receptions, parties, reunions, or anniversary. This ballroom can provide you with the atmosphere catered to your specific taste. The Texas Deck accommodates up 75 guests. The ideal room for business meeting, showers, trailing classes, or gathering you might have holiday parties accommodating up to 75 guests.

The Belle is located at: 5241 East Raines Rd., Memphis, TN

901-297-3954

www.thebellebymaxx.com


Getting Rid of Wedding Stress

Stress is natural, it happens. But when you have that support system to be there as a buffer it makes life so much easier for both the bride and the groom.

So, what causes blushing brides to become bridezillas? The pressure can build and really get to people. Those who get easily stressed out may not be able to cope with it well and it comes out in yelling, getting upset.

How to avoid wedding stress?  Experts say:

1. Stay healthy, don’t let your diet or exercise routine suffer.
2. Learn how to delegate, ask people to help.
3. Break things down to manageable tasks and focus only on those tasks one at a time.
4. Make a timetable
5. Utilize technology by posting a website.

Technology will help you eliminate a lot of the anxiety and stress and make it so much easier to communicate with everybody and have everything organized. And most important: keep to a budget so things don’t get out of hand.

Photo by Dorothy McCuskey 901.359.8575 www.pbdstudios.net

 

Wedding Accessories: Must I Wear a Wedding Veil?

What’s the story with wedding veils? Do I have to wear a wedding veil, and if so, for how long?

Besides being a bridal icon — and coquettishly sexy to boot — the wedding veil has many symbolic interpretations and uses around the world and in different religions. For example, wedding veils were once donned as protection from evil spirits or used to prevent the bride and groom from seeing each other until the deal was sealed in an arranged marriage. Times have changed, but the wedding veil remains a popular part of the bridal ensemble. That said, you do not have to wear a veil on your wedding day, just as you do not have to toss your bouquet, wear a garter, or smear cake on each other’s faces. If you do choose to wear a wedding veil, it is traditional to wear a blusher-style veil down the aisle, which is then lifted by either your father (before he leaves your side), maid-of-honor (before the final vows), or groom (after the final vows). If you don’t like the idea of wearing a blusher, you can certainly walk down the aisle with your wedding veil worn back and away from your face. How long you wear your veil is up to you. Some brides find them somewhat unruly — especially if you’re getting married at the beach or other windy locale — and can’t wait to take them off after pictures or before they hit the dance floor. Luckily, many wedding veils are now detachable, which means they simply Velcro to your headpiece and can be easily removed without ruining your hairstyle. Keep your options open: Try out a variety of veils when you go gown shopping to make your final decision. And if you decide you don’t care for them, simply go veil-less and don’t wear one at all!

As a photographer I do love the detachable veils they are very fun to photograph! :-)  -Dorothy McCuskey 901.359.8575 www.pbdstudios.net

photo by PBD Studios -Dorothy

Weam Team Wedding

Congratulations to Ashley and Joshua big wedding day March 25th  2012! This was nearly a WEAMTEAM wedding we met them last year March 2010 at a Weddings and Events Seminar at Le Pavillon. They booked everyone we had there based off availabilty. This was a fun fun wedding. The Venue was Carahills II in Gallaway TN, They booked there honeymoon to Jamica with Travel Leaders the Collierville office 901-853-6200 and they enjoyed it so much they HAVE already booked another trip through them back to Jamica! wahoooo.  The flours were done by Paula Payton -Paytons Perfect Designs absolutely STUNNING! Drapers did the catering and the cake ALL VERY YUMMY! PBD Studios Dorothy McCuskey and Elizabeth Schaulk did the photography I think we did a pretty good job (wink) and Don Lawler with Story Tellers did the video. Andria Lewis was the Event Planner doing a amazing job keeping this in order. <BR>

Absolutely Stunning couple!

-Dorothy McCuskey PBD studios 901.359.8575

 

 

 

 

Roses are Red and I Love You!

Is rose red your favorite color? Are roses your favorite flower? Incorporate them into your wedding invitation. A rose is a romantic idea to use as a theme for your wedding. No other flower has proven to be the flower of love like the rose. The rose is the symbol to describe love and affection. Wedding invitations with roses are extremely popular with romantic, traditional or contemporary brides.
A simple wedding invitation, with a romantic rose has the effect to add a touch of elegance to your wedding.

www.dixonsprinting.com

A Father Daughter Dance

This one is for the dads. The father-daughter dance is an emotional thing, almost like saying goodbye. Of course she’ll always be your little girl, but now she’s also someone’s wife and eventually she’ll probably be someone’s mother. That’s a lot to take in. You’ll feel proud, happy, nostalgic, hopeful, and a little bit sad all at the same time. Savor it, because it’s fleeting and it only happens once.
You obviously don’t have to take lessons to dance with your baby. You’ve probably been doing it for years anyway. But dance lessons will make you more relaxed and confident so that you can concentrate on what’s going on and really be in the moment. And for the price of a few dinners out you can learn to dance in a way that will make your little girl look like the princess she is. And what more could any daughter ask from the first Prince Charming in her life?
Memphis Ball Room
-Catherine Woods

Wedding Photography Trends 2012

Photo taken by Dorothy McCuskey PBD Studios at Dixon Gardens Memphis TN, Tux provided by Guys Tux Memphis TN

Vintage style: A lot of Brides are adding a vintage look to their weddings,  then looking for the sepia and old grainy look to the photographs to really get that feel.

Wedding week pics: couples are starting to request wedding week coverage, especially if they have friends and family in from out of town. We are already being asked to cover more rehearsals and rehearsal dinners and day-after sessions, so why not just extend the photo fun to a whole week?

Detailed images: More couples are asking for detailed photos of all of the centerpieces and everything that goes into the wedding day. This includes creative shots of shoes, rings and the dress.

Pre-wedding portraits: Different styles of portrait sessions done before the big day, such as a boudoir session as a gift for the fiancée, are becoming more popular.

More creativity: As couples want to get more creative with their portraits, they need more time to get the type of shots they want. More couples are scheduling a few hours before their wedding to go out and have a pre-ceremony shoot where they can be more relaxed and get some images that show them enjoying the moment.

Shoes: Huge deal these days no more white shoes… Brides are going bold bright and beautiful with the colors, we have also found that Toms are a popular shoe for the whole wedding party. Its all great for photographs.

-Dorothy McCuskey  PBD Studios photography 901.359.8575 www.pbdstudios.net

 

What’s It All About, Alfie?

First, my apologies for the sixties throwback title. (Grooms, go watch the movie if you haven’t seen it. It will reinforce your decision to get married.) But “what’s it all about?” pretty well sums up most people’s reaction to dental insurance.

Since you will soon be a newlywed, and perhaps moving to a new city or a new job, you will likely face some questions and decisions about dental insurance (and probably other insurance as well). There are a lot of words and concepts you may not be familiar with. Here’s a short list of some you may run into:

DEDUCTIBLE–Very common with all types of insurance, it is the amount of money you pay to the doctor before your insurance kicks in. Usually about $50 or $100.

ANNUAL MAXIMUM–The total amount your insurance will pay in the year. Note: EACH of you will have this amount available, for example, a $1000 maximum means YOU have $1000 available, and YOUR SPOUSE also has $1000 available.

SUBSCRIBER–This is you. You are the employed person who signed up for the insurance, and you are the policy holder. You list your family members as DEPENDENTS on your plan.

PRIMARY/SECONDARY–This is a great source of confusion when both spouses have insurance, and each one lists the other spouse as a dependent. YOUR policy is YOUR PRIMARY insurance, and YOUR SPOUSE’S policy is YOUR SECONDARY insurance. As you might imagine, filing claims can get tricky.  Your best source of help is the staff at your dental office. They have been dealing with this for years.

If you have other questions, send a note to me, Dr. Smith, and I’ll forward it to my staff. I am definitely NOT the expert on this. Also, check out our website at MemphisLumineers.com